Thursday, January 19, 2017


Sometimes two people just aren’t a match, it’s as simple as that. Sometimes both people can see this with perfect clarity, and sometimes only one person does. 
Being single can be tough, dating can be exhausting, but neither of these options is as bad as being stuck in an unhealthy relationship. Everyone has something they want to give to a relationship and get from a relationship. If what you give is what the other person can receive, and vice versa, then it’s a match. If not, then it doesn’t mean either of you is bad or damaged or not good enough, you’re just not a match and that’s OK.
Try not to take it to personally and instead realize that while this might not have been the right relationship for you, the next one very well might be so your best bet is to mentally and emotionally move past this relationship so you can open the door for something even better to walk through..

In the beginning you were so full of hope and optimism, two of the most uplifting and exhilarating feelings there are. And you’re having a hard time parting with it, a hard time accepting that while what you and he shared was good, it wasn’t good enough to stand the test of time. But it’s OK. Not every relationship is meant to last so don’t think of it as the end, think of this time as just the beginning of your journey towards finding the right one.